Food & Drinks: The staple food of Khasis is rice.
They also take fish and meat. Like the other tribes in the North-East, the Khasis also
ferment rice-beer, and make spirit out of rice or millets by distillation. Use of
rice-beer is a must for every ceremonial and religious occasion.
Social Structure: The Khasis, the Jaintias and the Garos have a matrilineal society. Descent
is traced through the mother, but the father plays an important role in the material and
mental life of the family. While, writing on the Khasi and the Jaintia people, David Roy
observed, 'a man is the defender of the woman, but the woman is the keeper of his trust'.
No better description of Meghalayan matrilineal society could perhaps be possible.
In the Khasi society, the woman looks after home and
hearth, the man finds the means to support the family, and the maternal uncle settles all
social and religious matters. Earlier in the conservative Jaintia non-Christian families,
however, the father only visits the family in the night and is not responsible for the
maintenance of the family.
Inheritance: Khasis follow a
matrilineal system of inheritance. In the Khasi society, it is only the youngest daughter
or Ka Khadduh who is eligible to inherit the ancestral property.
If 'Ka Khadduh' dies without any daughter surviving her,
her next elder sister inherits the ancestral property, and after her, the youngest
daughter of that sister. Failing all daughters and their female issues, the property goes
back to the mothers sister, mothers sisters daughter and so on.
The Ka Khadduhs property is actually the ancestral
property and so if she wants to dispose it off, she must obtain consent and approval of
the uncles and brothers.
Among the War-Khasis, however property passes to the
children, male or female, in equal shares but among the War-Jaintias, only the female
children get the inheritance
Marriage: Marriage within a clan
is a taboo. Rings or betel-nut bags are exchanged between the bride and the bridegroom to
complete the union. In the Christian families, however, marriage is purely a civil
contract.
Religion: The Khasis are now
mostly Christians. But before that, they believed in a Supreme Being, The Creator U
Blei Nongthaw and under Him, there were several deities of water and of mountains and also
of other natural objects. |